Our Non-Negotiables
1) Medical Boundaries
• We do not diagnose, prescribe, or advise stopping medication.
• Medical decisions are made with your licensed clinician.
• Coaching supports lifestyle, intimacy skills, and nervous-system regulation
alongside proper medical care.
2) Consent Framework
• Consent must be enthusiastic, informed, specific, and revocable at any
time.
• Use safewords: Green (good/continue), Yellow (slow/adjust), Red (stop
now).
• Agree on boundaries, safe body parts, and aftercare before play.
3) Airway & Body Safety
• Nothing enters the mouth unless the receiver is eager, breathing freely, and
can stop instantly.
• Respect pelvic floor/cervix/rectum—no pain is “required” for pleasure.
• Set time limits and hydration/breath breaks for intense practices.
4) Tears, Freeze, or Overwhelm
• Pause immediately. Clear the airway; reduce stimulation.
• Offer simple options: space, water, blanket, quiet, or a hug.
• Honor the answer. No debate. Stop for the night if requested.
5) Aftercare
• Plan it in advance: warmth, water, quiet, reassurance, nourishment.
• Debrief when regulated: what worked, what didn’t, what to adjust.
6) Repair & Accountability
• If harm occurs (even unintentionally), we apologize, stop, and seek repair.
• We may refer to medical or mental-health professionals when appropriate.
7) What We Reject
• Weaponizing sex to punish, control, or “correct.”
• Interpreting tears as permission to intensify.
• Any directive to start/stop meds outside a clinician’s care.
One-liners to remember
• “If you cry, we pause. If you say stop, we stop.”
• “Your safety and sovereignty outrank the scene.”
• “Consent is continuous; we can change our minds.”
Medical Disclaimer: Coaching content is educational only and is not medical
advice. Do not start, stop, or change any medication or treatment without a licensed healthcare provider.